I’m tired of my hub. Should I divorce him?
17 May 2010
His attitude stinks. His parents want nothing to do w/ him, yet he always wants to be up their @$$.. They never invite him to anything.. They always with the other children. All their kids are grown up. He treats his mom like a queen and he just sh!ts on him and uses him. But me the one who’s always there for him.. well, I’m the one he takes his anger for her out on me. He talks to our kids like they’re dogs… well to make it more clearer.. Like Jon and Kate Gosselin.. He would be the Kate/… Seriously.. he’s a d!ck..
I know I must look like an idiot, but I’m fuming. He pushes my buttons. I don’t think I deserve for him to treat me like crap or our children.
He’s the black sheep..so he tries so hard to fit in.. he looks like a dumbass though.. He has his own family. He’s a grown man.. I think the only ppl he need to impress to make happy is me and our children.. But us he just tosses aside to be with them.
I called him a d!ck, not idiot.. and he fits the bill of a dumbass.
the mrs.. Wow, that last statement you made sounded just like him.
You’re assuming you know the kind of person I am based on one question.
His attitude stinks. His parents want nothing to do w/ him, yet he always wants to be up their @$$.. They never invite him to anything.. They always with the other children. All their kids are grown up. He treats his mom like a queen and he just sh!ts on him and uses him. But me the one who’s always there for him.. well, I’m the one he takes his anger for her out on me. He talks to our kids like they’re dogs… well to make it more clearer.. Like Jon and Kate Gosselin.. He would be the Kate/… Seriously.. he’s a d!ck..
I know I must look like an idiot, but I’m fuming. He pushes my buttons. I don’t think I deserve for him to treat me like crap or our children.
He’s the black sheep..so he tries so hard to fit in.. he looks like a dumbass though.. He has his own family. He’s a grown man.. I think the only ppl he need to impress to make happy is me and our children.. But us he just tosses aside to be with them.
I called him a d!ck, not idiot.. and he fits the bill of a dumbass.
the mrs.. Wow, that last statement you made sounded just like him.
You’re assuming you know the kind of person I am based on one question.
Hmm… sounds like he needs to get himself a backbone and stand up to this witch!
If he is treating you and your children bad then I think you should get out of this unhealthy relationship.
You shouldn’t need to ask strangers if you should get a divorce or not. That should be a decision you could come to grips with on your own. Sorry.
You need to make this kind of major decision on your own if you should divorce him or not.
You cant expect others to decide this for you.
You just called your husband an idiot, and a dick. Loving couples do not talk like that about each other. Your way off base. Take a nap and read a magazine and then cool off.
You need to calm down & then think about what you want. No good decisions are made while being angry.
Now you need to think about yourself & YOUR KIDS!!!! Kids would rather BE from a broken home then LIVE in one. The reason he is taking it out on you is because he can!! You treat people how to treat you. Your allowing it.
Sounds like he has a lot of issues w/his family that has nothing to do w/you & your marriage. Are you supportive of all that baggage?
If you can tell yourself you have done everything you could do to save this marriage, if you could walk out the door w/no regrets & feel ok about it because you know it’s the right thing to do, then it’s time to do it.
I wasted 17 yrs on the same jerk & I regret it everyday. There is no changing them. They have to want it for themselves. It is just a waste of time & you only live once. Don’t you think you & your kids deserve to be happy.?
Think about your kids. Got a daughter? You are teaching her about relationships. What is she learning? Got a son? What is he learning.
Good luck!!!
You need to work on things. Marriage is not a Valium drip and the “D word” should not just be thrown out there. Get a hold of yourself, sit down with you husband and help him work out these issues with his parents. He may just need to know you are on his side.
EDIT- If you were my spouse I would be a dick too.
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